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Monday, October 4, 2010

Vacuum

The wedding was a huge success! Thank you all for your wishes. I am waiting to watch the video since I spent most of my time coordinating the event. I even earned the title of 'field marshall'. We had security at the door and people were turned back, there were too many guests; Some uninvited and or without IVs or the aso-ebi.

I couldn't sleep for a few days after the wedding, I miss my sis. She has been coming and going the past week to get her remaining stuffs. I am yet to fill her wardrobe space, it feels like I am invading her privacy.

On the engagement day, I wore my heels, to say I regret the action is an understatement! I wore flats all through the next day! Wise decision and it wasn't as bad as I thought 'cos I didnt even have time to think about it.

Too many people saw the wedding on air judging by the calls I am still receiving. I just thank God the ceremony was money well spent. May the couple enjoy marital bliss.
The room feels empty now and I ocassionally mention my sister when I want to call my brother hence the vacuum.

I was just chatting with a friend and she is quite angry. Still on the subject of weddings: She says a friend didn't inform her she had a boyfriend and she is getting married on Friday. Her grouse is the 'big secret' and she asked me why people are usually secretive about theitr wedding. I had no answer to that and simply told her to relax, if the other lady valued their friendship or had belief in it, she would have been informed.

I am a realist and I try to avoid assumptions so I don't get upset much by my friends. I have come to realise people have different definitions of friendship. Hope everyone is doing alright. Remember to be the best you can be all the time. Have a nice week

14 comments:

AlooFar said...

Are there leftovers? Someone's hungry here ;)

Myne Whitman said...

I'm glad your sisters wedding went well madame Field Marshall, lol. Enjoy the week and don't miss her too much :)

bumight said...

now i know who's gonna be my wedding coordinator!

LG said...

pictures pictures plzzzzzzz :)
thank God everything went well

LusciousRon said...

AlooFar: Some fried meat, funny with over four caterers, I didn't taste anything at the wedding!

Myne: Thanks, getting used to the absence though.

Bumight: Would be glad to help. Mail me.

LG: I would if i could, but the bride would lynch me! She even refused to have any of their picture on the gift items!

2cute4u said...

Glad it is finally over o.. Same complaint I have about certain friends who don't tell me about the hookups and yet want me to go the extra mile, what can I do now? But I am termed envious, I must act o.. Pity you and the heels, I can so imagine..
Okay o Field Marshall,take care, you'd be fine in the long run.lol

2cute4u said...

Glad it is finally over o.. Same complaint I have about certain friends who don't tell me about the hookups and yet want me to go the extra mile, what can I do now? B4 I am termed envious, I must act o.. Pity you and the heels, I can so imagine..
Okay o Field Marshall,take care, you'd be fine in the long run.lol

Chic Therapy said...

Yeah people do that.They only inform their friends of the wedding few weeks before.I guess it is paranoia!

first time on your blog .

Zena said...

Seeing as we're blog buddies, can I get a discount when it comes to my wedding planning?

You handled it well and I'm happy everything cam e through
But heels? really?

LusciousRon said...

2cute4u: Thanks, the extra mile thingy is shocking! And you are right what can I do now? :)

Chic Therapy: That paranoia is spraeding like wildfire! Thanks for reading and welcome to my page.

Zena: You have it, just mail me! Thanks jare. Silly me for the heels just wanted to look fly for the event! :D

blogoratti said...

Field Marshall...kinda has a nice ring to it,hehe. Congratulations on the success of it all. Yours isn't too far off as well,can i get a witness!

leggy said...

i wish your sister an awesome married life.im glad it went well..

Repressed One said...

Aww@ vaccum...Congrats to your sis and her new hubby. May the joy they felt on that day be ever present through their marriage.

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Congratulations on your sisters wedding.
And yeah, people definitely have different definitions about what friendship is.