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Monday, December 13, 2010

Idle hands

Forgive the randomness.
I am currently looking for a job (with a torch light I might add!) So I have a lot of time on my hands. I read a lot of things but lately, I noticed that a lot of people have different names for copulation. The interesting ones I have found include:

Playing the pokey table
Laying the Pipe and eating the Goodie box (Sounds icky)
Settling in the lady caves ( This is not funny stricto sensu but I can't stop laughing)

On to other things, I remember a time when make up regime consisted of dusting powder on the hands, rub said hands together and wipe over the face until well blended. I say this because I had to get ready for a party recently and I had 25 mins to take a shower get my face on and be ready!

I wondered how I was going to get it done within the time but I did. I went back to the old routine. Of course the finishing touches were done in the car. Which brought to fore the necessity of wearing make-up at all. Women Palava

I have been wondering lately, can men and women 'just be friends' without any strings? I have tried for years to reach a medium and even argued fervently in times past that it is possible but I can't help but conclude that it is very RARE. One party always want something more. In cases where they don't, if an opportunity ever presents itself, one party will try to take advantage of the other. Can anyone prove otherwise? I have had to prune down my friends list because of this. I can't give what I do not have.

Is anyone excited over Christmas? I am not and I just want the season to be over. The anxieties over the festivities is too much and the evil boys/girls are out en masse all because they want to have money for Christmas. Too many snatched cars, people getting killed etc it is just too close for comfort and I go out now ONLY if it is absolutely necessary. I don't even do the casual 'meet up for drinks' anymore. I sorely miss that.

I pray 2011 brings more good tidings. By the way, my graduation went very well. I had a great time with my parents and I left just a day before the snow started! That was coup for me. :D Have a great week people


LG said...

1stttttttt (now i deserve a Hamper)

amen to ur prayer, 2011 breakthrough unlimited, watch out!!

and gudluck on ur job HUNTING, but wen shell/nnpc/inec call u rememba me o :)

bArOquE said...

men & women can surely be friends, one of my former best friends is a woman,& we have NEVER EVER had anything sexual...
...however, i'v been in situations with other ppl, whn they've wanted more...rel crashed, then we got back 2geda, i switched to d me i know, & fucked her brains out...sad what i had been missing

v.unlike you, i'm excited about this Christmas season, jus that this holiday i just returned from has severely pruned my finances.

good luck on the job hunt...

BTW:confirm your location

2cute4u said...

You'd get a job soon dear..
That's the craze when it gets to this season..
People wanting to meet up by all means..
Exs can be friends but its either filled with loads of beef and competition or lust and confusion..
It's the way I see it anyway..

LusciousRon said...

LG: Just send your address and you will be surprised. Why did you add INEC? I do not want to taint my reputation abeg :)

bArOquE: Good for you with the best friend, I did say it was rare. Enjoy Christmas and with the holidays you have had, all I can say is hmmn...
I am in Lagos and thanks.

2cute4u: I share your view on the man/woman thing. Thanks I will try to enjoy this 'free' time.

StandTall-The Activist said...

I believe men and women can be friends for real and at times those with genuine interest to start a relationship will respect the decision of the other if it comes to chosen their friendship over any other stuff.

Am not even feeling December in the air

Nefertiti said...

Hey LR. I think men and women can be friends if there is no prior attraction or skeletons in the closet. Cases like the one baroque describes (the other situations) are not rare at all. Women tend to fall back to the familiar when the itch needs to be scratched (know what I mean?) Some of us however read too much into the romp... anyways, yeah. I think we can all get along and sing kumbayah, no strings attached.

Good to hear about ur grad, chica. And I wish you the best in your job search!

Naijalines said...

Men and women can be friends subject to some caveats that others have mentioned, i.e. no physical attraction, sexual chemistry etc.

Lol at different names for copulation. It's weird what people come up with.

Christmas is fast becoming a ritual except for the look on kids' faces when they get their presents.

Happy job hunting. May your torchlight bring in the goodies, regardless of the limitations of the search.

Parakeet said...

I have a lot of male friends I don't sleep with as am sre you do...so there goes.

Merry xmas dear.

el~correcta said...

wow.your post is tainted with such great magnitude of negativity. You could do with enjoying life a bit.have a mindset of a happy yultide season swty!