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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

More of what?

It's like its been ages since I last came here. Been following a few posts but didn't leave comments. I never thought I would ever get this busy! I mean wow!

Hope everyone is doing good and the death of Micheal Jackson didn't hit too hard. The least expected things just happens.

There is no theme to this post just me saying hi and that I miss my blog family.

Is it weird that I feel no allegiance to some of my friends? I mean we spent quite a good number of years been friends but nowadays it's like the effort it takes to be friends with these ladies is too much and I am throwing in the towel. I can't keep up with the charade it annoys me and before I engage in a screaming fit I stopped making any effort towards the friendship.

There are so many things I want to say to them that I literally get choked up in their presence and I also don't want to hurt their feelings. I guess I will get the courage to get it right some day.

Is it also weird that I am not interested in men at the moment. The wahala is just too much. The amount of time women invest in making a relationship work or getting into one is kinda crazy!

I mean I am tired of hearing the will he/won't he, what do you think etc questions. I get these visions of slapping people to shut up and get a move on alreday! I think I ma going nuts or am I stressed?

Even the home bound traffic doesn't get to me anymore, I am just there, my mind blanked out, with the single theme of getting home some time. There is an end to every journey afterall!

I think I am just in a sour mood.

I had better get on with work. I will go shopping at the end of the week. Retail therapy always help. Speaking of which, I am still in love with the Blackberry Storm. I dream of holding it in my hands. I can't wait to get that phone.

Remain Blessed. May be I will blog more to let out some of my inner thoughts.

13 comments:

Rita said...

Retail therapy...works most of the time...

It's good to give yourself a break now in preparation cos making a relationship works involves some energy I'll say...

Remain blessed

Temite said...

oh dear....You will be fine. and yer some friendships are not meant to last for always. There is time for everything. Enjoy your shopping love.

Lolia said...

*sigh* I give up trying to convince people to get the Bold instead...The bbb is so the business :)

But good to know that you've been {for the most part} well and don't worry it happens to the best of us...There comes a time when you realize that some friendships just aren't worth the effort and that you don't have the energy it takes to get all hype about guys...It comes and goes...

But yayy for retail therapy! I'm amassing all my paychecks so I can go on a spending spree at the end of the month before I leave for home...Enjoy your shopping and smileeeeee :)

xx

pink-satin said...

retail therapy works o!!men i just indulged in it over the weekend!
lol @ "I get these visions of slapping people to shut up and get a move on alreday"....thats funny!!!

LusciousRon said...

Rita: Thank you. I will say.

Temite: I intend to jare. I guess some friends are meant to be in your life for a reason and a season.

Lolia: You are a bold lover. You are amassing all your paychecks for shopping? Wow!

Pink Satin: Yay for retail therapy. It sure works. Just window shopping and knowing I could just step to indulge myself makes me happy like crazy.

Thanks for stopping by everyone.

Tigeress said...

All becos u've been friends with them for a while doesnt mean you have to remain blose friends. Just goes you've all grown apart as you've all matured (hopefully). :) Do your own thing jare. Look for different/better friends.

ScoopsNija said...

At least we know you're fine. And blackberry storm, lurrrv that phone.

Original Mgbeke said...

I hope you figure it out soon, I know how it be sometimes. Take your time and breath, get your thoughts together.

It's good to see you back.

bArOquE said...

ow, the part about trying to make a relationship work got to me, i can relate to that nonsense...my dear, its just a phase, you'll be quite fine, just do what you must, dont let anyone or anything annoy you...go shopping & buy something unusual while you're at it

Honeywell said...

to be very honest, i feel you on the friends thing. It sometimes feels like it takes too much energy to be around certain people
However, it could simply be because you're stressed, so maybe you might need to take some time to chill. As for men, don't even get me started

Honeywell said...

to be very honest, i feel you on the friends thing. It sometimes feels like it takes too much energy to be around certain people
However, it could simply be because you're stressed, so maybe you might need to take some time to chill. As for men, don't even get me started

LusciousRon said...

Tigress: I guess it has come to that.

Scoopsnaija: I am good thank you just need more hours in the day!

Original Mgbeke: I am really trying. Thanks for checking up.

Baroque: That is proving quite difficult but I will get there.

Honeywell: I get the stress thing. We are on the same page on the guys!

Tairebabs said...

I love retail therapy too! My account is screaming at the moment but hey my mental well being comes first. lol. I am with Temite when it comes to friendship...some are not meant to last for always. I learnt that the hard way. Do take ur time. Your blogville family are here for you:-))